A friend sent me this link, to a "sad poem" by Kim Addonizio entitled "Eating Together" from her book What Is This Thing Called Love. It raises issues that we all have faced -- friends with cancer or other threatening illnesses -- and the ways that eating and loss are woven together in memory, in life, and in love. Follow the link; and say thanks -- to friends for poems that arrive via email and the wonders of The Writer's Almanac with Garrison Keillor. And spend a few moments thinking of those you have lost -- to death, to mistakes, to all the vagaries that are life.